Growing up I was definitely a mix of an introvert and extrovert kid. I like reading books, solving math problems, finishing homework before playtime with my sisters, and accompanying my mum to parties with her girlfriends because she was such a social butterfly and everyone’s darling.
I enjoy hanging out with mates and parties with lots of food excites me but also at the same time I need space without updating everyone what I am up to. I would always choose staying home, coding, fixing my computer, or a skincare routine than to go out in a loud event, stay up late with people or party any day.
With my behaviour, I struggled to have a stable relationship because I was inconsistent and perceived as a selfish bitch that full of herself. Lol Doing my thing, and loving myself are real struggles.
I know I am not the only one who is ‘weird’, and inconsistent in a relationship so I would like to share with you survival tips on how to date a modern Filipina girlfriend.
Filipina women are known for being “beauty queens” and we legit can’t help it. 🤭
Filipina women are 50% neat and 50% OCD. We can spend hours applying skincare products day and night because we like to take care of ourselves to boost our confidence in beauty. We require self-care for peak performance and heightened self-esteem. We believe that putting ourselves first will make us stronger and healthier. We like to be presentable, smells good, and our eyebrows must be on fleek before we can go outside.
Filipina women are playful to our partner.
We are unafraid to be playful, friendly, and yes at times, flirty. We are not just a super clingy girlfriend to our partner but we are also good in bed. This isn’t gossip but statistics prove it. We are good at kissing and lovemaking. That doesn’t mean we are experienced in sex but we are just good lovers and naturally playful. We also like to make our partner feel good about himself.
Filipina women are independent, we don’t like controlling men.
Most women will cry for days after a bad break up whilst a Filipina woman will only waste her time crying for a day, after that she will pick her pieces, hide her sorrow and move on. We are not afraid to lose a guy and definitely not scared to find another love. We are only scared to lose our job. Haha! 🤭
A modern and independent Filipina woman does not always seek for help because it is a sign of weakness or an interposition. Hence, if we are in a relationship we don’t like when a man is overstepping our boundaries.
Filipina women love to love.
We may not be as romantic as Italian women but we are caring, generous, affectionate and thoughtful. We demonstrate our love by cooking for our partner or gifting him an expensive presence.
Beware when you start an argument, we don’t back out, hun!
Most Filipina women are shy and feminine proper but speak with us with caution when we tell you don’t cross the line. If you do, batten down the hatches and prepare to ride out the storm.
But Filipina women are loyal as we come.
We pride ourselves as loyal to those we love hence, we expect the same. It also means, if you are in a relationship with a Filipina woman, you are not supposed to give compliments to other women. So beware – do not come between a Filipina woman and her friends or family or it will end in fisticuffs.
Now that you know some tips, say thank you! 👑